6 Causes of Buyer’s Remorse After Buying a House—and How to Avoid It

By Jack Cutrone | Patriot Real Properties

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Buying a home is one of the biggest financial decisions you’ll ever make. It’s exciting, life-changing, and, unfortunately for many, a little regret-inducing. A recent Zillow survey found that 75% of homebuyers experience at least one form of buyer’s remorse after purchasing a home.

I’ve seen it happen far too often—buyers rush into a deal, feeling pressure from the market or emotions running high, only to realize later that they overlooked key factors. The good news? You don’t have to make the same mistakes.

Let’s break down the six most common causes of buyer’s remorse and how you can make the right choice—one you’ll love for years to come.

1. The Home Requires Too Much Maintenance

A house with a beautiful, sprawling yard might look great when you tour it, but do you have the time, money, or energy to maintain it?

💭 Buyer’s Regret Example:

“If I could do it over, I’d buy a cute condo with a small yard. Tending to a house with a big yard is just too much work.”

How to Avoid It:

✔️ Be realistic about how much upkeep you can handle—landscaping, roof repairs, plumbing, HVAC maintenance, etc.

✔️ Consider a home warranty for unexpected repairs.

✔️ If you love the idea of a yard but not the work, look for low-maintenance landscaping or a home with HOA-covered lawn care.

2. The Home Is Too Small for Your Needs

That cozy bungalow might seem perfect now, but will it still work for you in five years?

💭 Buyer’s Regret Example:

“We love entertaining, but our kitchen and dining area are too small. We should have waited for a house with more space.”

How to Avoid It:

✔️ Make a list of must-haves vs. nice-to-haves before you start shopping.

✔️ Think about your lifestyle—do you need space for a home office, a growing family, or frequent guests?

✔️ Don’t settle for a house just because it’s available. The right home is worth the wait.

3. The Location Isn’t Right

A beautiful house in the wrong location will always feel like a mistake. Whether it’s traffic noise, a long commute, or a lack of amenities, location matters.

💭 Buyer’s Regret Example:

“I love my house, but the road is so busy, and the noise never stops!”

How to Avoid It:

✔️ Visit the home at different times of day to check for noise, traffic, and neighborhood activity.

✔️ Test the commute—drive to work or school during rush hour before making a decision.

✔️ Research the walkability, nearby amenities, and future development plans.

4. The Home Needs More Repairs Than Expected

Older homes come with charm—but also a long list of repairs. If you’re not prepared, these unexpected expenses can lead to major regret.

💭 Buyer’s Regret Example:

“We bought an older home thinking we’d renovate slowly, but within two years, we had to replace the roof, water heater, and sewer line.”

How to Avoid It:

✔️ Never skip a home inspection.

✔️ Price out potential renovations before making an offer.

✔️ If you’re not handy, factor in contractor costs for any necessary repairs.

5. They Didn’t Consider the Entire Environment

A house isn’t just about the structure—it’s about the entire experience of living there. If you crave privacy but end up in a crowded development, you might regret your choice.

💭 Buyer’s Regret Example:

“After two years, I find myself craving privacy and acreage. I didn’t think about how close my neighbors would be.”

How to Avoid It:

✔️ Think beyond the house—consider lot size, privacy, and neighborhood feel.

✔️ If natural light is important, make sure large trees or buildings won’t block your sunlight.

✔️ Look for homes that match your long-term needs and personal preferences.

6. They Didn’t Do Enough Research

Rushing into a purchase without enough research is one of the biggest causes of buyer’s remorse.

💭 Buyer’s Regret Example:

“We bought a new construction home without researching the builder. We had to chase them for months to get things fixed.”

How to Avoid It:

✔️ Research the builder, real estate agents, and mortgage lenders before committing.

✔️ Read reviews and ask about warranties on new construction homes.

✔️ Learn about property taxes, HOA fees, and local zoning laws to avoid surprises.

How to Make a Confident, Regret-Free Purchase

If you take one piece of advice from this article, let it be this: Slow down and think long-term.

A house is not just a purchase—it’s where you’ll live your life. Taking the time to do your research, understand your needs, and make an informed decision will save you from regret down the road.

📞 I can help. Call me today at 631.926.9592, or email me at Jack@patriotrealproperties.com. Let’s find a home that you’ll love for years to come—without the remorse.

Final Thought:

The real estate market moves fast, but that doesn’t mean you should rush your decision. If you’re feeling overwhelmed or unsure, take a break. A great home is worth waiting for.

Looking for expert guidance? Let’s talk.

📍 Jack Cutrone | Patriot Real Properties

📞 631.926.9592

📧 Jack@patriotrealproperties.com